In a world full of distractions and excuses, there’s a perfect lie: “My circumstances control my results.” But there’s a radical, life-changing alternative extreme ownership. This principle, popularized by Navy SEALs and embraced by world-class performers in every field, puts you 100% in charge: your actions, your outcomes, your future. What Is Extreme Ownership? Extreme ownership
“Trust the process.” Coaches, mentors, therapists all say it at some point. But what does it actually mean for your health, your progress, and your long-term results? Most people get excited to start a new journey be it a fitness plan, recovery routine, or life overhaul but lose steam when results don’t come instantly. The truth is, any
Contribution” isn’t just the final chapter in personal growth models; it’s arguably the single force that expands and sustains all other areas of health, happiness, and fulfillment. As Tony Robbins (and research) remind us, giving is a human need—not just a virtue. But what does meaningful contribution look like in real life? How does it
Growth is wired into us. Whether it’s a child’s urge to explore, an adult’s longing for new skills, or an elder’s wisdom in mentoring others, there’s a constant drive: Can I do more? Become better? Expand my world? But in the modern age, “more” often means faster, harder, busier… and too often, burnt out. Balancing growth with wellness body, mind,
From the classroom to the workplace, from sports to social gatherings, two of the strongest motivators in human nature are the desire for significance (to matter, to stand out) and the yearning for love and connection (to belong, to be seen and valued by others). When these needs are met in balance, our health, motivation, and happiness flourish. But
Our Two Fundamental Needs: Stability & Adventure Every person carries a push-pull between wanting the comfort of routine and the thrill of something new. In wellness, as in life, both needs matter. Robbins’ model names them “Certainty” (the need for predictability and safety) and “Uncertainty” (the hunger for variety, challenge, novelty). How Certainty Shows Up
Why Expectations Matter as Much as Your Goals If you ask anyone what they want for their health, most will answer with big ambition. “I want to fix my back pain for good.” “I want to be able to dance at my child’s wedding… in ten years.” “I want to feel young and strong at
TImagine: What If Your Life Is Already “Full”? Ever feel like your days are jam-packed—but you’re still not moving toward what you want? If you’ve ever set a passionate goal (get pain-free, run a 10K, reclaim your spine, eat better, enjoy mornings again!) but find yourself spinning, you’re not alone. Here’s the truth:Most people aren’t
Spring is a season of renewal. After the quiet, reflective months of winter—and in my case, many days of skiing in Santa Fe’s mountains—it’s bittersweet to watch snow melt… but thrilling to feel the trails open up, the days lengthen, and the air warm. It’s also a metaphor-rich time of year. Everything in nature seems
Spring is a special season. Days grow longer, sunlight grows steadier, and temperatures invite us to step outside more often. In the natural world, growth accelerates because there’s an abundance of energy—plants soak in sunlight, animals become more active, and the whole environment feels like it’s humming. That same natural rhythm is available to you,