A great philosopher once wrote, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” That insight matters as much on the gym floor as it does in life.
If you keep getting off track with your health and fitness goals, it’s almost never because of a random disaster. Far more often, it’s because you haven’t brought full awareness to the patterns or beliefs that trip you up again and again.
What Really Throws You Off?
Sometimes it’s a self-limiting belief: “I always give up when it gets tough.”
Other times, it’s letting external negativity in: listening to a colleague scoff about the pointlessness of ‘trying.’
Or maybe, you’ve started to believe the pain, stiffness, or weakness in your own body is “just the way it is.”
Sure, sometimes lightning does strike—illness, an emergency, an unprecedented disruption. But repeatedly losing ground after a setback points not to life’s circumstances, but to old beliefs, emotional patterns, or unexamined habits that haven’t yet been rewritten.
Step One: Spot Your Role in the Pattern
You are not helpless. You are always, in part, a co-author in your story. The key to growth is to look back and honestly name the obstacles—and your role in creating or sustaining them. Avoid defensiveness. Approach it with curiosity and self-compassion, not blame.
Ask Yourself:
- What situations or moods always precede a slip?
- Do I repeat certain justifications (“I’ve had a hard day, I deserve this,” or “It’s just genetic, I can’t do anything”)?
- What people, environments, or thought patterns send me down the old path?
Common Mistakes & Limiting Beliefs
- “I’m just too busy to exercise” (Is that truly the case, or is it a belief you haven’t tested?)
- “I have bad genetics, so it won’t make a difference.”
- “Change is too hard for someone like me.”
- “Pain and stiffness are just part of aging.”
These beliefs are powerful, but almost always less true than we’ve told ourselves.
How to Break the Cycle: A Practical Guide
- Recognize and Name the Mistake or Belief
Be honest, not self-punishing. Write it down: “I believe that ,” or “I always get thrown off by.” - Challenge the Story
Ask: Is this really true, or just a habit of thought? What evidence might suggest it can change? What have others proven, or what have I overcome in the past? - Rewrite With Compassion and Truth
Limiting belief: “I always fail when I try to work out after work.”
Reframe: “I’m still learning what scheduling works for me. Maybe I can try morning movement, or shift my workout to lunchtime.”
Keep it concrete, real, and optimistic. - Replace With Action
New positive self-talk or specific adjustments work best. Instead of, “I’ll never stick with it,” try, “I’ve had setbacks, but every attempt teaches me what to tweak. My job is to stay curious and keep adjusting.” - Repeat the Process
This isn’t a one-and-done event! Mistakes change shape. Continue journaling, reflecting, and updating your self-understanding regularly.
How This Changes Things in Real Life
A SolCore client, Adam, used to blame being “too busy” for falling off his program. Through honest journaling, he realized he was sabotaged by the belief that self-care was selfish, so he overfilled his time with commitments. The moment he owned that belief, he began to schedule himself on equal footing with his other obligations. His success rate skyrocketed—not because life became easier, but because his story changed.
The Big Takeaway
You will repeat what you do not recognize, but with awareness comes freedom. Mistakes and setbacks are not the enemy. Complacency and unchallenged beliefs are. Look back with honesty, own your patterns, and step forward more equipped than ever.
So, what old story or limiting belief will you rewrite this week? Hit reply and share your breakthrough I’d love to celebrate it with you.
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