
This one’s raw: It took me most of a lifetime to realize that ego my drive to keep pushing, achieving, and proving my worth was both my engine and my Achilles’ heel.
For years, I wanted to move and perform the way I knew I could. That meant doing the activities I’d always loved, the ones that fueled my confidence, felt familiar, and seemed to keep me “balanced.” In reality, it was all about being good at what I was already good at. Satisfying? Maybe. But was it making me (or my body) truly healthy and balanced? Absolutely not.
The problem was, there wasn’t much real education out there about how to get and keep your body holistically balanced—how to address dysfunction, not just performance. Eventually, lack of knowledge and ego-fueled “more is better” thinking led me to crash and burn… hard.
Beyond the Physical: A Loss of Identity
If you know my story, you know where that landed me: in pain, washed out, and confused. The physical pain was rough. But the emotional toll—the loss of identity, the internal confusion, and feelings I’d spent years outrunning almost took me down.
This is what steered me to Osteopathy and, even more importantly, to a new mindset a strategy that integrated body, emotions, and mind.
Body, Mind, and Spirit: The Real Holistic Approach
Discovering Osteopathy changed everything. It showed me that true healing doesn’t come from pushing harder; it comes from precise, integrated, and holistic training teaching the body, not just forcing it.
But the biggest revelation? My physical healing was directly tied to my willingness to start working with my emotions and mindset. The “crash and burn” wasn’t just a matter of overtraining my body; it was a matter of how I was living, thinking, and running from discomfort. Mindset books, self-help, and even Buddhism became part of my daily practice. To this day, they are essential tools for my health.
The Cost of Constantly Running
I grew up thinking achievement would erase all discomfort. I succeeded—a lot, on the outside but my anxiety ran just as high. The problem was, I assumed the suffering and stress were just “part of the deal.” It wasn’t until injury forced me to stop that I began to connect the dots: how you chase improvement matters far more than just “getting results.”
Feeling uncomfortable, I learned, isn’t just about pushing past a workout’s limits or chasing another win. It’s about actually sitting with the feelings bubbling up inside you, letting them teach you something new about boundaries, needs, and the patterns holding you back.
If you view discomfort and suffering as a signal to push harder or run away, you get stuck in a loop: feeling bad, pushing to not feel bad, ending up feeling even worse. That’s the ego trap. The breakthrough comes when you allow yourself to pause and listen.
Suffering as a Teacher
“Suffering has a cause,” Buddhist tradition teaches. I’ve seen it in myself and everyone I coach. Suffering is a message. The willingness to “get friendly” with it to become curious instead of defensive changes everything. Your physical health, your mindset, and even your relationships transform.
Reflective Questions for Growth
- Have you noticed yourself repeating the same behaviors because they feel familiar even when they stop serving you?
- Can you see patterns in your life (physical pain, emotional shutdown, relationship friction) that are messages, not punishments?
- Do you mistake emotional discomfort for a sign to push harder, when it’s really a call to look deeper?
If so, you’re not alone. I’m with you, and so is everyone who’s ever tried to out-run their own feelings or ego only to realize the finish line never appears.
Bringing It All Together: Physical and Emotional Integration
Here’s what I’ve found and why I teach [OSTEOPATHIC EXERCISE AND THERAPY TECHNIQUES] as just one part of real wellness:
- The body needs precise information, not just “more effort.”
- The mind needs compassion, not criticism, when discomfort appears.
- Emotions are teachers. Not easy ones, but the most transformative you’ll ever have.
You don’t have to keep suffering. You don’t need to keep running. The hardest pill to swallow is often the best medicine: Slowing down, feeling what’s really there, and using holistic, integrated methods to move forward—body, mind, and spirit.
Your challenge: Pause for a moment this week. Notice where your old strategies have outlived their usefulness. If you’re ready to connect the dots between physical healing and emotional growth, let’s explore it together with the [OSTEOPATHIC EXERCISE AND THERAPY TECHNIQUES] in our programs, or with honest conversation about what you’re experiencing.
The process isn’t always easy, but it is priceless. If you’ve had a similar lesson or transformation, I’d love to hear your story let’s walk the next steps together.
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