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Regaining Independence: Mary’s Journey to Freedom

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When you think about independence, you might picture financial freedom or the ability to travel. But for many, independence means something much more personal: the ability to move, explore, and live life without being trapped by pain.

This is Mary’s story.

Finding Freedom from Pain

As an active person, Mary was deeply frustrated when scoliosis and SI joint issues sidelined her. The doctors told her she wasn’t a surgical candidate, and the physical therapy covered by her insurance barely scratched the surface.

Like many people, she was desperate for relief—but traditional approaches weren’t enough.

That’s when Mary found SolCore Fitness & Therapy. She was immediately drawn to our fascia-focused, holistic approach that addresses the root causes—not just the symptoms.

She joined our group classes and began private therapy sessions that worked directly with the source of her pain.

A Path to True Independence

The workouts were challenging, but never out of reach. Step by step, Mary began to rebuild her body.

Her pain decreased. Her mobility returned. Her confidence grew.

After a year and a half of committed work, Mary achieved something that once felt impossible—she completed a rugged 6-mile hike, a milestone that symbolized the independence she thought she had lost forever.

“I achieved results beyond my dreams.” — Mary

Holistic Healing That Works

Mary’s journey is a powerful reminder that when you address your body as a whole system—when you work with fascia, postural balance, and integrated movement—true independence becomes possible.

You don’t have to accept limited movement as your new normal.
You don’t have to settle for treatments that only scratch the surface.

There is a path to freedom.

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Who is Borelli and How Can His Muscle Range Of Motion Length Law Help You in Your Fitness Routine?

Muscle range of motion is an important factor in training yourself properly. But it’s not just about moving your body. There are different range of motions for different effects. Read more to find out.

Meet Borelli: The First Biomechanic

Borelli lived in the 1600s and was a true Renaissance man — a mathematician, physicist, and physiologist all rolled into one. He’s often called the Father of Biomechanics because he was one of the first to look at the human body and say, “Hey, our muscles and bones work like levers, springs, and pulleys!”

What is Borelli’s Length Law?

In a nutshell, Borelli’s Length Law states: The length of a muscle is proportional to the range of its contraction. Muscles behave differently — and produce different types of strength — depending on whether they’re shortened, lengthened, or somewhere in between. In short, it’s the Muscle range of motion and what they can do for you.

Borelli’s 5 Ranges of Muscle Motion (And How They Help You)

Internal Range Full flexion (muscle fully shortened), very little extension.

Why it matters: Builds stability, tight control, and joint protection.

External Range

Total extension with a bit of flexion.
Why it matters: Strengthens muscles in their stretched, vulnerable positions.

Middle Range

Partial flexion and partial extension.
Why it matters: Where muscles are strongest and most efficient — builds power.

Total Range

Moving from full flexion to full extension.
Why it matters: Trains adaptability and real-world functionality.

Extrem Range

Muscle stretched to max while still contracting — e.g. ELDOA.
Why it matters: Improves deep structural resilience and tissue quality.

Final Thought: Your Fitness Journey is Bigger Than 3 Sets of 10

The world of fitness is vast and full of possibilities. Muscle range of motion is just one factor that you can work with. If you’re willing to look beyond sitting on a machine and doing 3 sets of 10–15 reps.
By training all muscle ranges of motion, you open up new levels of strength, movement, and vitality that most people never tap into.

Borelli’s old-school insights still hold true today: “The body is a masterpiece of mechanics. Train it fully — and you’ll live fully.

When you start combining Borelli’s Length Law with other timeless principles — like Pascal’s Law, Hill’s Muscle Model, the Delmas Index — through the holistic lens of Biotensegrity, your training, your movement, and your life will expand exponentially.

Methods like ELDOA are modern reflections of this timeless science — helping you build not just strength, but deep, intelligent resilience.

Read more about how holistic exercise and fitness program can help you feel your best and have a body that can keep up with the way you want to live.

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How to Make The Time Go Faster During A Workout

This is an interesting article that I notice often in my studio during workouts.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2025/mar/26/people-doing-intense-exercise-experience-time-warp-study-finds

In a workout class that includes ELDOA’s, a one-minute stretch can feel like an eternity due to the challenge and discomfort it presents for the joints. However, the entire 45-minute class or session can pass in the blink of an eye because of the constant need for awareness and consciousness during the exercises.

The Choice to have "fun" in a workout.

The choice during a workout

The article mentions that time seems to go faster when you are enjoying yourself, and I agree. However, when working out, the goal is to intentionally challenge yourself and embrace discomfort. It is up to each participant to choose whether to set themselves up for success.

They can choose to accept the challenge and even find joy in the process of improvement. The time will pass faster and more enjoyable. Or they can decide that “this is too hard,” “I don’t like it,” or “this isn’t fun,” basing their experience on fleeting emotional states and the belief that they can’t succeed. The time will pass slower and much less enjoyable.

Finding a balance of “fun” in your workouts

While having fun doing activities you love is essential, those activities can take a toll on your body. The areas you use most can become tight, weak, and challenging to work with. However, if you value your body and choose to give it “some love” through corrective exercises, you can continue enjoying your life. Ignoring these issues because they are “not fun” may eventually lead to injury and potentially require surgery. Super not fun.

In the long run, I find it enjoyable to challenge myself to become more than I am. It doesn’t mean the process is always fun, but it makes the outcome more worthwhile for both my body and soul.

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Katy G – When All Else Failed, She Tried Again And Succeeded

The big smile that Katy comes in with is always a joy to see. But situations with her body were trying to take that smile away. You see, 10 years ago, she was injured at work. The pain and limited activity were constant companions. 

She tried PT, Cranial Sacral, and all types of bodywork massage, including Rolfing, Feldenkreis, acupuncture, chiropractic, ergonomic office assessments, and yoga classes, and bought various DVDs specific to back issues. In 2023, I had spine surgery for sciatica and stenosis. She suspected her back would have been worse sooner without these efforts, but they didn’t fix matters.

Activities like gardening, bending, walking, and sitting were severely limited and painful. She had sciatica every day and neuropathy in her shin and foot. The walking distance was short, and her speed was slow. Sitting down really locked up her back and glutes. Standing was more comfortable. Lying prone with ice offered some relief.

Medicare cut off her PT five months after surgery, but she was still not okay. To make matters worse, and her more frustrated, PT had not helped much anyway. She was praying for direction when she saw an ad for a free SolCore Fitness trial class on Facebook (this is our Monthly Free ELDOA class).

She signed up online and attended the free Saturday group class, and since she found it so beneficial, then signed up for the 2-week trial to give SolCore Fitness a fair test. Ekemba Sooh did an assessment of my issues so he knows what is safe to do. Ekemba is active in class, hands-on, adjusting student postures, and he is very aware of our abilities and injuries. She also signed up for some individual sessions to include the manual therapy techniques because “I was desperate to get better.”

After six months of classes, she continues to improve. She walks better, moves easier, can sit longer, has reduced duration, is less frequent, and travels more efficiently. Since she continues to make progress, she is motivated to keep going and continue to improve her body, health, and life. So, She is sticking with the program that got her there.

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Do You Know the Truth About The Bend Pattern?

Bending is one of the most common movements we use in everyday life—picking up your kids, moving a box, swinging a golf club. But most people don’t do it well. That poor movement adds up, leading to tightness, pain, or injury over time.

So should you jump straight into Romanian deadlifts (RDLs) or kettlebell swings to “fix” it?

Not quite.

Let’s unpack what the bend pattern really is, which muscle chains are involved, and how to approach this movement holistically so your body gets stronger—not more worn down.

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What Is the Bend Pattern, Really?

In training, the bend pattern refers to a hip-dominant movement like an RDL or deadlift. You’ll see this pattern show up solo or combined with other movements during everyday life—lifting, twisting, walking, squatting.

But just “doing” the movement doesn’t mean you’re doing it well.

If your muscle chains are out of balance—some tight, some weak, some misfiring—practicing the bend pattern without addressing the root causes can reinforce dysfunction and eventually lead to pain or breakdown.


The Bend Pattern Is a Global Movement

Unlike isolated exercises, the bend pattern is what we call a “global” movement. It requires the whole body to coordinate and act as one. That’s why I don’t just teach the movement—I assess how your body is functioning within the movement.

We look at the full chain: the muscles, fascia, tendons, ligaments, and how they interact.

The primary chain behind the bend pattern is your posterior chain—from your heel to your calves, hamstrings, glutes, deep back muscles, and even your neck and shoulders. But your anterior and lateral chains help stabilize that pattern too.

Here’s a quick snapshot of the key players:

  • Soleus
  • Gastrocnemius (calf muscles)
  • Hamstrings
  • Gluteus maximus
  • Four layers of spinal muscles
  • Trapezius
  • Rhomboids
  • Levator scapulae
  • Shoulder stabilizers

The Problem with Just “Doing” the Bend

Too often, people start loading up barbells without assessing the quality of their chain or how their fascia is functioning.

The bend pattern naturally places more mechanical load on the lower back than a squat—simply due to leverage. That’s not a bad thing. But it becomes a problem if:

  • You haven’t trained segmentally
  • Your fascia is out of balance
  • You’ve overloaded the system
  • You’re dealing with an acute back issue

Force isn’t the enemy. Misapplied force is.


How to Learn the Bend Pattern: Start Pure

To truly master this pattern, you must start with clean motor control. I teach the butt-back, bow-forward drill from a kneeling position. It’s the most stripped-down, brain-friendly way to teach your body how to move properly.

From there:

  1. Kneeling →
  2. Bodyweight standing RDL →
  3. Light weight →
  4. Full deadlift (hip + knee bend)

At each step, you’re grooving the right motor pattern—building a motor engram in your brain so you move properly without having to think about it.

Key pointers:

  • Keep a neutral spine (don’t over-arch or round)
  • Maintain all four natural curves in your back
  • Shift weight back into heels—but don’t lift your toes
  • Move as one unit—don’t break at the spine
  • Engage your abs and lats for support

Common Mistakes (That Will Wreck Your Back)

  • Rounding the spine
  • Overarching the lower back
  • Losing foot contact
  • Using too much weight too soon
  • Not progressing through proper training stages

Instagram might celebrate a rounded-back deadlift, but your body won’t. You want smooth, controlled, segmental movement—built over time with intention.


The Fascia Piece (Why It Matters)

Muscles don’t work in isolation. They’re wrapped in and connected by fascia—a living, communicative network that governs structure, neurology, and coordination.

If your fascia is dehydrated, compressed, or restricted, your body can’t move well—even if your muscles are “strong.”

Here’s what affects fascia health:

  • 🚰 Dehydration (aim for half your body weight in ounces of plain water daily)
  • 😰 Chronic stress
  • 🧍‍♂️ Not working the fascia directly (training in multiple planes and ranges)

Want a better bend pattern? Take care of your fascia first.


Deadlift vs. RDL

Once you master the RDL, you can layer in the deadlift by adding controlled knee flexion. The movement stays hip-dominant, but now you’re handling more force and range of motion.

Both movements are important—but only if you’ve earned the right to do them well.


Slow Is Smooth. Smooth Is Strong.

Building a bend pattern takes time. Don’t rush. Train your brain, train your chains, and train your fascia. It’s not about how much weight you lift. It’s about how well you move—now and for the rest of your life.


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If you’re 40+ and looking to be strong, mobile, and pain-free for the long haul, I’ve got a few ways to support you:

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See you next week—take care.

— Ekemba Sooh
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AI and exercise. Is it leading you down the wrong path?

Using AI for fitness may seem like a modern-day solution. Brands like Peloton and Tonal promise an at-home personal trainer experience powered by smart technology. But is that program really right for your body? Will it help you progress—or leave you frustrated and stuck?

Hi, I’m Ekemba Sooh, owner of SolCore Fitness. I’ve spent 30 years helping people move, heal, and grow through a unique system based on osteopathy. That means I approach the body as a whole, with every part affecting the next. So when I see people relying on AI for their workouts, I can’t help but ask: is this truly helping?

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Why AI Alone Falls Short in Fitness

AI—artificial intelligence—is smart. It can write content, answer questions, and automate tasks. I even use it myself to help outline articles. But when it comes to fitness, things get complicated. Most AI-powered fitness systems use general programming pulled from a shallow pool of traditional exercise science.

That’s a problem. Because if traditional fitness programs worked well on their own, we wouldn’t have an obesity epidemic, chronic pain issues, or confusion about how to train properly. You can be motivated and consistent, but if the program itself is misaligned with your body’s needs, you won’t get far.

Fitness companies saw a shortcut. They cut out human trainers and replaced them with tech. And because many people are already familiar with the exercises AI promotes—squats, deadlifts, pushups—it feels safe and familiar. But familiarity isn’t the same as effectiveness.


What AI Can’t See

AI doesn’t know your fascial restrictions, your structural imbalances, or your injury history. It doesn’t know if your pecs are tight or weak, or if your hip joint is compressed. It gives you a squat whether or not your body can do it safely.

Those “seven primal movements” (squat, bend, push, pull, lunge, twist, gait) are great—but only if your body is ready. Most people have compensations and limitations that need to be addressed first. Without that prep work, AI is just automating dysfunction.

For example, say you’re doing pushups. If your pecs are underdeveloped or overly tight, your body will still complete the movement—but it will cheat. And no amount of AI coaching will correct that unless it also includes isolation, fascial work, and joint mobility training.


A Holistic Approach Technology Can’t Replicate

I’m not anti-tech. I use Zoom to work with clients, spreadsheets to track progress, and video to educate. But I don’t let AI drive the program. I use human insight, years of study, and real-time feedback to shape each client’s path.

True holistic training means knowing which chains of movement are involved, how fascia influences motion, and how one area can throw off the whole system. It’s not just about what exercises you do, but how and when you do them—and what comes before.

Osteopathy embraces complexity, not generic templates. And while that makes it harder for big companies to scale, it’s also why it works.


Should You Use AI for Exercise?

If your goal is to move your body a few times a week and you’re not looking for deep transformation, then yes—AI can offer a convenient, affordable option. But if you want long-term results, sustainable change, and to actually understand and work with your body, it falls short.

Fitness isn’t about just “doing workouts.” It’s about building a relationship with your body—knowing what it needs, how it responds, and how to support it fully.


Want to Learn More?

If you’re ready to explore a smarter, deeper way to train, check out the resources below:

I’d also love to hear from you—have you tried AI-driven fitness tools? What was your experience like? Drop a comment or reach out and let’s have a real conversation about it.

Until next time,
Ekemba

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The Hidden Freedom in Habit Change for Long-Term Health

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I want to share a liberating paradox that’s brought me (and many of my clients) real peace—and I believe it’ll do the same for you:

Habits give you freedom… even when you “fail” them.

It sounds backwards, but it’s true.

Sometimes skipping a workout, missing a meditation, or veering off your nutrition plan isn’t a failure. It’s part of the natural rhythm of building long-term health.

Life throws curveballs. That’s not a matter of if, but when. What matters most is what happens next.

Do you get stuck in guilt or frustration?
Or do you pick yourself back up, adjust, and keep going?

Because real habit change isn’t about perfection. It’s about steady recommitment.


Progress, Not Perfection: The 80/20 Reality

Let’s stop chasing 100%.

No one hits every goal all the time—and trying to creates burnout. Instead, aim for 80/20.

If you’re making good choices 80% of the time—whether that’s working out, eating well, or taking care of your mind—that’s a massive win. That’s consistency. That’s transformation.

And when you “fall short,” it’s not failure. It’s data.
You can:

  • Reflect: What threw you off?
  • Adjust: Can you create a backup plan?
  • Reconnect: Link new habits to familiar ones, like brushing your teeth.

Every stumble is a chance to refine.


True Habit Change Builds Over Time

We’re so conditioned to chase quick results. But true change—change that lasts—comes slowly, through repetition, grace, and commitment.

If you’re in this for the long haul (and I hope you are), treat your goals like a relationship with your body—not a checklist.

That relationship deserves:

  • Patience when things don’t go as planned
  • Support from others when motivation dips
  • Vision that sees beyond today’s setback

This is a marathon, not a sprint. And yes—you’re allowed to walk parts of it.


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You don’t have to do this alone.

As a therapist and trainer with 30 years of experience, I’ve helped people build sustainable, science-based programs that work with the body’s design—not against it.

If you’re ready to commit to real, holistic habit change and long-term health, I’d love to help you do it the right way.

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Own Your Power💪🏽

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Pop quiz, hot shot!
There’s just one question:

Who’s in charge of your life?

If you answered, “I am,” then congratulations—you’re right.
You are the only person ultimately responsible for your outcomes—good or bad, healthy or not, fulfilled or frustrated.

The power to create the life you want is within YOU. That’s personal empowerment—and it lives alongside the concept of responsibility.

I bring this up because I often hear from people who feel powerless.

❌ They feel like something is happening to them
❌ They shrink into little boxes, assuming this is “just how things are”
❌ They want someone else to fix things without owning their part

So let’s flip that script.


You Hold the Reins

Understanding that everything is your responsibility is the key to moving forward.
Yes—even the hard stuff. Maybe it wasn’t your fault. But it’s still your opportunity to rise and reclaim direction.

The best part? You also get to take credit for all the good that’s come from your choices.

Let’s build on that.


✅ Harness the Strength of Your Past

Everything you’ve survived, achieved, and endured is your fuel.
Your past challenges make you stronger—and your past wins remind you what you’re capable of.


✅ Set SMART Goals

Don’t just aim. Aim well.
Specific. Measurable. Achievable. Relevant. Time-bound.
Track your progress. Adapt as needed. Celebrate small wins.


✅ Boldly Declare Your Path

Stop mumbling your dreams.
Speak them. Share them.
That’s personal empowerment in action.


✅ Build a Supportive Network

Power doesn’t mean doing it all alone.
Ask for help when needed. Offer support in return. Surround yourself with people who uplift and challenge you.

This is also what we build in our personal training and therapy programs—a network that matches your ambition.


✅ Take Care of Yourself—Fully

Body. Mind. Spirit.
Movement. Food. Sleep. Breath.
Emotions. Boundaries. Curiosity. Compassion.

At SolCore, we see all of these as training variables—and we tie them together using osteopathic techniques and fascia-first programming, outlined in our Holistic Fitness Guide.


This path isn’t always easy.
But power builds on itself.

Every step you take reinforces the next.
Every choice becomes momentum.
And every moment is a chance to own your power—fully.

It’s always been in you.
Now’s the time to act on it.

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SolCore Fitness Therapy Success Story: Joanne Brown’s Holistic Transformation

At SolCore Fitness Therapy, we know that the best transformations are built on science, support, and a customized approach. Joanne Brown’s journey is a testament to what happens when the right method, the right environment, and the right mindset come together.

Joanne’s Struggle: Stiffness, Pain, and “Stuck” in the System

Joanne arrived at SolCore on a typical New Mexican afternoon—tired, frustrated, and skeptical. She’d spent years drifting through exercise fads and well-meaning advice: swimming for fitness (helpful, but not enough weight-bearing load), daily walks (nice, but didn’t fix stiffness), and even prescription therapies that offered only fleeting relief. The frustrations compounded:

  • Chronic mid-back “pulls” that never quite resolved
  • Restless sleep, low energy, and a growing fear that her 60s meant giving up on movement joy
  • A sense that her own body was a puzzle, unsolved by “standard” approaches

Finding the Holistic Difference at SolCore

A friend recommended SolCore’s unique approach. On day one, Joanne noticed a difference: the group classes weren’t “bootcamp torture”—they were supportive, slow, and deeply educational. Led by Ekemba, she learned about the science of fascia, myofascial stretching, posture alignment, and real corrective exercise (not “one size fits all” templates).

Assessment and the Blueprint

Rather than jumping into random workouts, Joanne received a thorough movement screening—analyzing posture, joint function, and movement patterning. The result? A clear blueprint for her program:

  • Address mid-back and shoulder mobility
  • Integrate fascial stretching to relieve tension “chains”
  • Focus on strength from the inside out (core, posture, breath)

The Journey: Small Wins and Transformative Shifts

Over the next six months:

  • Myofascial stretching improved her daily movement and loosened mid-back tightness
  • Holistic classes (always capped at 15 people for direct attention) boosted her confidence
  • Personalized homework connected the dots on why her “bad days” came and went

Joanne’s favorite insight? “I learned my body isn’t broken—it was just missing the right stimulus and support.”

The Results: More Than Just Pain Relief

  • Freedom from daily mid-back pain (“I just didn’t feel quite right—now that’s just gone!”)
  • Greater mobility in her upper body and balance on walks
  • Deeper, more restorative sleep (“For the first time in years, I wake up refreshed!”)
  • Stronger connections to the group: community, encouragement, and accountability

Clients like Joanne consistently remark that SolCore’s group setting gives both expert feedback and camaraderie—never competition or pressure.

Why Holistic, Fascia-Focused Training Works

  • Integration over Isolation: Muscles don’t work alone; the group teaches you how chains move together.
  • Manual Therapy Meets Movement: Hands-on corrections prime the body, while classes reinforce efficient patterns.
  • Ongoing Education: Each session explains the “why” behind every stretch or drill—empowering clients to carry lessons into daily life.

Advice for Newcomers: Joanne’s Insights

  • “Don’t be nervous—you don’t need to be ‘fit’ to join.”
  • “Expect to learn. The more you understand about your body, the more you respect the process.”
  • “Progress isn’t always linear—some weeks you’ll leap, some you’ll simply stay the course. Trust the journey.”

Next Steps for Readers

If you’re skeptical about group exercise, tired of cookie-cutter routines, or worried your body’s “too far gone,” Joanne’s story proves that a science-based, holistic approach can rewrite your future.

Curious how you might benefit? Check out [The Ultimate Guide For A Holistic Exercises And Fitness Program] to learn the philosophy behind our approach—and see how we help clients of all ages build lasting change.

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The Power of Contribution: How Giving Fuels Personal Growth in Holistic Health

The importance of contribution in holistic health and personal growth

Contribution” isn’t just the final chapter in personal growth models; it’s arguably the single force that expands and sustains all other areas of health, happiness, and fulfillment. As Tony Robbins (and research) remind us, giving is a human need—not just a virtue. But what does meaningful contribution look like in real life? How does it influence your well-being, body, and mindset?

Why Contribution Is the Keystone Human Need

All humans seek to grow, connect, and feel significant in their lives. But many find their deepest moments of fulfillment in contribution offering their time, skill, energy, or encouragement to others.

Contribution is:

  • The teacher staying late to help a struggling student
  • The friend who lifts you out of a rut
  • The fitness class member who cheers on a newcomer
  • The busy parent squeezing in time for a neighbor or volunteering at a community garden

Every gesture, big or small, ripples outward: “Living is giving,” as Robbins says.

Health Science: Giving Is Good for Your Body

Modern research proves what wisdom traditions intuited: giving triggers positive biochemistry boosting oxytocin, serotonin, immune response, and even longevity. Studies show people who volunteer regularly have:

  • Lower blood pressure
  • Improved self-esteem
  • Decreased rates of depression
  • Longer, more vibrant lives

The Shadow Side: When Giving Drains

But here’s the catch: giving without boundaries can lead to burnout. As Robbins and other experts teach, “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” Givers sometimes push themselves into patterns of over-extending, people-pleasing, or neglecting their own self-care.

The antidote? Contribution balanced with healthy self-worth and routines that fill your energy reserves.

Story: Maya’s Reframe

Maya, a SolCore member, loved volunteering at food banks and always put her children’s needs first. As months went by, she noticed a rise in exhaustion, daily aches, and resentment. “I was angry I didn’t have energy for my own health,” she said.

In coaching, Maya learned to “put on her own oxygen mask”—prioritizing three trainings weekly, carving out quick mindful walks, and recruiting her family into meal preps. Her mood lifted, pain receded, and suddenly, giving was again a joy instead of a drain.

True Self-Care: Give What You Possess

The most sustainable givers are those who prioritize their fitness, learning, nutrition, and wellbeing. Only when your cup is full can you “pour out” with abundance instead of depletion.

  • When you move and nourish your body, you show up energetically for your work and relationships.
  • When you seek education and support, you model healthy boundaries for friends, children, and community.

Concrete Habits That Expand Your Contribution

  1. Schedule Self-Check-Ins
  • One morning each week, note how your energy and mood feel.
    • Adjust routines to fill your tank (sleep, movement, rest) before it’s empty.
  • Involve Others in Your Wellness
  • Meal prep with children.
    • Stretch with partners or friends.
    • Share wins publicly not to brag, but to inspire.
  • Volunteer with Boundaries
  • Choose service opportunities that align with your values and availability.
    • Say no when needed remember, you are not an inexhaustible resource.
  • Practice “Micro-Giving”
  • Text encouragement.
    • Compliment a peer on their progress.
    • Offer to grab groceries for an injured neighbor.
    • Celebrate others’ victories, not just your own.

The Holistic Program: Multiply Your Impact

Take a look at [The Ultimate Guide For A Holistic Exercises And Fitness Program]. Our approach is about integration: we build your capacity, then teach you to support others through leadership, education, and encouragement.

At SolCore, we see it daily: clients who thrive in fitness naturally become helpers and leaders in group classes, family circles, and beyond. Their mood, clarity, and positivity attract others.

Giving as Healing

Contribution isn’t just an outward gesture—it’s healing for the giver. Serving others breaks self-absorption, shrinks anxiety, and anchors your sense of purpose.

Client Testimonial: “Helen’s Breakthrough”
Helen, a semi-retired nurse, lost her sense of impact after leaving the hospital. We helped her start a weekly stretching circle with friends, offering gentle cues from class. “I never realized that sharing what I learned for my own recovery would mean so much to others—and bring me so much joy,” she reflected.

Ways You Might Contribute (and Grow)

  • Host or invite others to join weekly walks or simple movement
  • Share recipes and meal prep tips with your community
  • Invite a hesitant friend to try a new class
  • Offer rides or check-in calls for those injured or recovering
  • Give genuine compliments—these cost nothing but mean everything

Fill Your Cup, Then Share

The more resilient, centered, and connected you are, the more you can give, love, and grow—creating ripples that last a lifetime.

Ready to build a well that overflows? Start with your own foundation The Ultimate Guide For A Holistic Exercises And Fitness Program is your next step.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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