Men’s Health

Aug 03 2023

Shape Your Identity for Lasting Success

We all carry around a sense of who we are—an identity built from childhood, family, culture, personal achievements, and sometimes failures. Our identities are shaped consciously and unconsciously, acquired from parents or society or just the habits we fall into. But here’s the truth: the identities we hold most deeply are not just assigned to us—they’re chosen, and they’re changeable.

Take a moment today to think: What parts of your identity are fixed, and which are flexible? Maybe you’ve always considered yourself “not athletic,” “not a morning person,” or “the kind of person who finishes what they start.” How are these beliefs shaping your day-to-day actions? If you set a goal to become more fit, but your self-talk says “I’m lazy” or “I hate exercise,” what chance does that goal have?

One client, Jennifer, once told me, “I always quit things halfway. I’d love to stay consistent with fitness, but that’s just not who I am.” We challenged that together. Instead of focusing on the outcome—lose weight, run a 10K—Jennifer started shifting her language to, “I’m the kind of person who moves every day, cares for her body, and learns as she goes.” The difference wasn’t just semantic: over months, each small decision reinforced the new identity. When she missed a workout, she didn’t spiral—she noticed, forgave herself, and moved on, just like the “person who stays in the game.”

Why Identity Trumps Motivation or Goals

Scientific research in behavioral psychology shows that when actions are tied to identity, not just willpower, they become much more consistent—even under stress or setbacks. When you identify as a “healthy person,” you’re more likely to choose water over soda, take the stairs, and protect your commitment to movement.

The reverse is also true. If you only chase external goals (“I want to lose 20 pounds,” “I want six-pack abs”), the moment obstacles arise—illness, holiday meals, a few tough weeks at work—the goal is the first thing to go.

But what if you identify as someone who values health—not just for results, but for its own sake? Someone who trains because it supports a fulfilling life, not just to change a number? Suddenly, showing up is automatic, not forced.

Steps to Shift Your Identity and See Lasting Change

Decide Who You Want to Be
What single phrase or habit captures your ideal future self? Write it down. Make it present tense. E.g., “I’m the kind of person who prioritizes recovery as much as training.”
Reverse Engineer Daily Actions
Ask, “What does a person like that do every day?” Do they take lunch walks? Log their workouts? Prep vegetables ahead of time? Every small act reinforces the identity, until it feels natural.
Tie Your New Identity to What You Want Most
Shift “I want to visit Paris someday” to “I’m the kind of person who saves for travel.” The action—saving—becomes effortless when it’s tied to who you are.
Track Progress and Celebrate Wins
Keep a journal: note every time you act like your ideal self. Acknowledge setbacks as temporary, not defining. This builds self-trust.
Reframe Setbacks
When you slip—miss training, eat junk, lose sleep—don’t label yourself a failure. Use identity to bounce back: “I’m a person who gets back on track.”

Stories from Practice

I see this transformation often. A fitness client, Mark, wanted to be “more flexible.” We reframed: “I am the kind of person who stretches mindfully after every run, listens to his body, tries new techniques.” Within weeks, the chore became a habit; within months, he noticed better movement and lower injury risk—and his friends started copying his disciplined routine.

Ready to Start?

If you’re struggling with motivation or want to break frustrating patterns, claim our free guide: Move Better, Reduce Pain, and Live Life On Your Terms. The 4 Steps To Break The Cycle, Fix It And Keep it! It reframes goals into habits and habits into identity, so lasting success comes naturally, not by force.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Jul 31 2023

Change Your Values to Change Your Actions

Ever found yourself declaring “health is a top priority” yet spending nights on the couch snacking and skipping workouts? Most of us live with cognitive dissonance—the clash between our stated values and our actual choices. The trick to real change is bringing alignment.

Take “Karen,” a client who swore her values were family and longevity. Her actions? Working until midnight, eating out, avoiding movement routines. In coaching, we dug deeper. Did she really value health, or was she just expressing what she thought she “should” say?

Step 1: Identify Real vs. Imagined Values

Ask yourself:

Do your actions reflect what matters, or what’s supposed to matter?
What habits fill your calendar—work, relaxation, connection, play?
Who do you admire, and what would they actually do?

Karen realized her value was actually “providing for her family,” but she saw how neglecting her own health would cost her time, money, and energy in the long run. Gradually, she realigned her routines—coordinating meal prep with family time, integrating walks into her workday, sharing fitness goals with her kids.

Step 2: Concrete Habits Build Aligned Action

Values become powerful only when expressed daily. If you value independence, you’ll invest in mobility and strength. If you value learning, you’ll pursue new skills. If you value presence, screen time and multitasking will decrease.

Step 3: Bridge Theory and Practice

Knowing what matters is only half the battle; integrating it requires support. At SolCore Fitness, every [Holistic exercise program] starts with a clarification of values. Clients state not just “I want to be fit” but “I value energy for my grandkids,” “I value time hiking with friends,” “I value a pain-free morning.” We build actionable steps—daily mobility, mindful food, recovery rituals—rooted in these values.

Step 4: Commit Even When It’s Uncomfortable

The path to lasting change includes discomfort. You might need to say no to a second helping, yes to a 6am stretch, or ok to missing a favorite show for sleep. These sacrifices, rooted in values, build self-respect and visible progress.

Step 5: Seek Guidance and Structure

Laypeople often struggle to turn value statements into lasting routines. That’s why collaborating with experts, scheduling accountability, and structuring feedback loops works so well. Whether it’s a group class, a coaching program, or a guided habit tracker, accountability accelerates transformation.

Stories from Real Life

Karen reported fewer days of overwhelm, with her family eating better and moving together. Her energy, productivity, and mood improved. She noticed that aligning values and habits had ripple effects: stronger relationships, less stress, and more positive modeling for her kids.

Ready for Change?

Aligning actions with values isn’t quick—but embracing discomfort for the sake of what matters is the key to success. Discover how a true Holistic exercise program can help you identify, commit, and live your deepest values.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Jul 29 2023

Pelvic Health: The Key to Longevity and Strength

If you ask the average person about the most important part of their body for lifelong movement and health, you’ll get all sorts of answers: “my back,” “my knees,” “my core.” Rarely will someone say “my pelvis”—and yet, the pelvis is the true crossroads of the body, the silent foundation for posture, motion, and force.

Why Pelvic Health Matters More Than You Realize

Think of your pelvis as Grand Central Station for movement. Every step you take, every time you sit, lift, run, or even breathe, forces travel through the pelvis—up from your legs into your spine and downward from your trunk. When the pelvis is aligned, strong, and mobile, the rest of the body thrives. But if even a small muscle is weak, tight, or unbalanced here, your risk for injury and pain skyrockets.

Case Study: “James” and the Unraveling Chain
James came to SolCore after years of recurring hip tightness. A frequent hiker and recreational runner, he first noticed pain in his lower back, then developed “glute amnesia”—trouble activating his core and hip muscles. Over months, this led to pains in his knees, plantar fasciitis, even headaches. One thorough assessment showed the root: he lacked pelvic alignment and core pelvic stability. Instead of treating just his symptoms, we rebuilt strength and mobility in his pelvis. Within a few months, James was hiking pain-free for the first time in years.

Anatomy: What Goes Wrong (and Why)

The pelvis connects the lumbar spine with the femurs, linking the “trunk” and “legs” via dozens of ligaments, muscles, and key nerves. An unstable pelvis can take many forms:

Imbalanced hip flexors or rotators
SI joint dysfunction (common in both athletes and non-athletes)
Weak glutes, tight adductors, or shortened pelvic floor
Asymmetrical or limited gait patterns

The cumulative effects? Poor force transfer, compensation in the knees, weak low back stability, even jaw and neck issues (yes, it can travel up the chain that far).

Clamshells & Band Squats Aren’t Enough

In the age of Instagram fitness, you’ll see “clamshells” and “band walks” prescribed for pelvic health. But the truth? While better than nothing, these often underwhelm—because the pelvis needs to train as a coordinated, 3D system.

Real pelvic health means:

Strengthening all layers of hip and pelvic floor muscles
- Ensuring symmetric mobility from left to right
- Mobilizing the SI joint with targeted movements
- Teaching the body to resist, transfer, and generate force equally

Step-By-Step: How to Build Lasting Pelvic Strength

Bilateral and Unilateral Movements
Train both sides equally (bilateral), and also in isolation (unilateral). Single-leg bridges, standing hip mobility, lateral step-overs, and targeted dynamic stretches all help.
Fascial Chain Integration
Include the pelvis in the entire fascial network—integrate loading and lengthening movement patterns (think: myofascial stretches that travel from feet through the torso).
Functional Movement Assessment
A trained eye (often using hands-on methods, such as [osteopathic manual therapy]) can detect imbalances not visible in regular gym tests.
Address Mobility as Much as Strength
Most injuries stem from a loss of pelvic mobility, not just weakness—restore range, then layer in control.
Pain as a Signal, Not a Sentence
Stop “pushing through” if pain persists—see it as your body’s request for assessment and correction.

Gender, Age, and the Pelvis

Women experience increased pelvic health needs with pregnancy, postpartum, and hormonal changes. Weakness or tension here can affect not only movement, but bladder health, sexual health, even posture and digestion.
Men often ignore pelvic health, thinking it’s only about hip flexors or glutes—then end up with hernias, groin pulls, or chronic back pain.
Aging always highlights weak links. A stable, mobile pelvis is the #1 predictor of fall prevention, smooth gait, and even cognitive confidence (movement and balance affect brain health!).

Why Osteopathic Manual Therapy Is the Gold Standard

DIY work can only take you so far. Osteopathic manual therapy targets the root. At SolCore, that means:

Manual assessment to detect joint, ligament, or myofascial issues
Hands-on releases to realign and balance
Corrective exercise that builds resilience from the ground up
Education about movement, posture, and daily habits that support—not sabotage—your pelvis

Our results? Clients with decades of pain or recurring injuries become stable, strong, and able to return to running, lifting, hiking—and simply enjoying life.

Final Thoughts: The Silent Power of Pelvic Care

You can’t see your pelvis as easily as your biceps or abs, but when you invest in this foundation, everything else improves—strength, athletic performance, sex life, balance, and long-term independence.

Ready to reclaim your foundation for life? Book a consult for Osteopathic manual therapy and experience movement transformation from the center out.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Jul 29 2023

Why Your Fitness Routine Feels Stuck

You start out strong: New Year, new routine. Maybe you try HIIT on Mondays, Pilates on Tuesdays, run a few miles on Thursday, toss in a random YouTube yoga flow when you can. At first, you see some changes. Then, almost without warning, progress stalls. You feel heavier, stiffer—even uninspired. What’s going wrong?

The “Frankenstein Program” Trap

Many people string together attractive-sounding activities: a class here, a run there, a set of stretches they saw on social media. But the whole never becomes greater than the parts—often because the “parts” pull against each other.

Client “Sarah” came in after a year spent sampling everything: group cycling, barre, hot yoga, couch to 5K. She was fit, yes—but confused. What she gained in diversity, she lost in direction. She never improved her running times, always felt “tight,” and even developed new aches.

Why “Random” Fails in the Long Run

No Synergy:
If Monday’s workout ignores what happened Sunday, you enter Tuesday with fatigue. A muscle you torched two days ago never recovers.
Competing Priorities:
Workouts with radically different goals (strength, power, extreme stretching) sabotage each other.
No Overarching Structure:
Training is most effective when each session scaffolds onto the last—mobility supporting power, strength supporting endurance.

The Brain-Body Disconnect

Just as problematic: when routines are too random, your nervous system never builds the “neural map” that ties strength, balance, and mobility into one coherent system.

Patterns don’t consolidate
Form adaptations are lost
Plateaus set in and become harder to break

The Solution: Holistic Integration

What’s the alternative? A [Holistic exercise program]—one that integrates recovery, mobility, strength, and specific skill-building. With holistic structure:

Every session is deliberate: You know why and how it fits.
Improvements compound: Mobility gains show up in squats, posture work improves running, core stability boosts yoga form.
Progress is measurable and sustainable.

How to Start Switching

Assess Yourself:
Get a movement and goals assessment. Where are you tight, where weak, where compensating?
Map Your Week:
Build your week so each session primes you for the next. Need to squat? Prep with mobility and tissue work the day before.
Layer in Full-Body Routines:
Train myofascial lines, fascial chains, and stabilizers holistically—not just muscle groups in isolation.
Program Recovery:
Prioritize recovery as much as work. More isn’t always better—better is better!
Use Feedback and Adjust:
Don’t fly blind. Adjust your plan monthly based on how your body responds.

Story: How Integration Changed “Sarah’s” Life

Once Sarah switched to a program that connected Monday to Friday—mobility work feeding into strength, healthy eating supporting energy—everything clicked. Her aches faded, her enjoyment returned, and her running times even improved.

Why Group Classes Alone Don’t Cut It

Group fitness is fun, but unless coordinated into a comprehensive program, it can leave gaps. At SolCore Fitness, our classes fit within a weekly, monthly, and yearly plan so you make cumulative, not just session-by-session, gains.

Lasting Results: What to Expect

When you switch to holistic programming, you’ll notice:

Faster recovery
More consistent energy
Reduced plateaus and fewer injuries
A renewed sense of what’s possible—because your body is working together, not against itself

The First Step

Ready to ditch randomness? Explore our Holistic exercise program—the proven way to put all the pieces together, tailored to you.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Jul 25 2023

Be Patient With Your Body

If you get a paper cut, you don’t watch it every minute expecting it to close before your eyes. You understand: healing is a process. But with fitness and wellbeing, we often forget this basic truth—and demand instant results. If you’ve ever started a training routine and caught yourself asking, “Why am I not seeing improvement yet?” or got discouraged when an injury lingered for weeks, not days, you’re in good company. The real secret to sustainable health is patience.

Why Progress Feels So Slow

The body is always working in cycles breaking down, rebuilding, adapting. Every time you work out, you create controlled, microscopic damage: tiny tears in muscle fibers, mild inflammation in joints and connective tissue, neural stress that needs rebalancing. This “good stress” is the very stimulus for growth but only if paired with enough rest, hydration, nutrition, and time.

Case Study: Dave’s Marathon Recovery

After his first half-marathon, Dave could barely walk down stairs. Stubbornly, he wanted to “push through.” But gentle movement, mobility work, sleep, and nutritious meals were what helped his body rebuild. Three weeks later, Dave ran even stronger with no injuries.

Patience in Injury Recovery

Compare a paper cut to a torn meniscus, a sprained ankle, or stubborn low back spasms. The deeper or more complex the tissue involved, the longer it takes to heal. Ligaments, tendons, and fascial tissues (critical to support and movement) receive less blood flow than muscles, so their repair cycles are slower often measured in weeks or months.

Rushing back too soon means:

Incomplete healing
Greater risk of re-injury
Frustration when symptoms return “out of nowhere”

The Power of Osteopathic Manual Therapy

Where does Osteopathic manual therapy fit? It’s a way to amplify your body’s natural healing cycles. Hands-on methods speed circulation, relieve tightness, and restore joint fluency—no shortcuts, just assistance through each phase:

Assessment pinpoints root imbalances
Gentle manipulation supports proper alignment
Education teaches you what to expect during recovery and beyond

Clients who embrace this model—rather than jumping from doctor to doctor or program to program, expecting miracles—consistently report smoother, fuller recovery. Sally, a SolCore client healing a chronic shoulder impingement, shared: “I finally gave myself weeks, not days, to heal. Ekemba’s guidance made me stop fighting my body every step.”

What Patience Looks Like Day-to-Day

Track improvements in mobility, not just in pain: Are you moving better, reaching higher, standing taller even if discomfort lingers?
Celebrate small wins: One more degree of shoulder flexion, deeper sleep after therapy, being able to walk an extra block
Adjust expectations midstream: Everyone’s healing curve is different; don’t compare yours to an influencer’s quick recovery.

Building the Foundation for Lifelong Change

Patient people don’t give up; they double down on healthy routines even when results come slowly. Pair patience with:

Smart, progressive movement and strength work
Active recovery (walking, myofascial stretching, ELDOA)
Consistent hydration and anti-inflammatory nutrition
Sufficient, quality sleep

Every cycle adds up. Years from now, you’ll see the benefit of patience every day in less pain, greater capacity, and deeper confidence.

When to Seek Help

If healing is stalled, or pain worsens suddenly, reach out to a specialist. Instead of guessing, let a pro check your progress, adjust your plan, and suggest interventions like osteopathic manual therapy to break plateaus and align your recovery with your life goals.

Final Thoughts

Don’t let impatience sabotage your progress. Remember: your body thrives on support, not force. Like a plant, you grow best with time, encouragement, and the right inputs. The harvest always takes a season.

Ready to work with your body instead of against it? Learn more about healing and progression with expert support at SolCore Fitness, and see what patient investment can unlock for you.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 30 2023

Keep Promises to Yourself for Lasting Success

Most of us learned young that keeping promises to others is fundamental—part of trust, friendship, and reliability. But how often do you break promises to yourself, and what does it really cost? The truth is, your internal track record can make or break a fitness journey, impactful change, and ultimately, your own self-respect.

Why Broken Self-Promises Matter

Imagine promising a friend you’ll meet at sunrise and no-showing, week after week. Eventually, they’d stop counting on you. When you regularly break your own promises—“I’ll stretch every night,” “I’ll walk at lunch,” “I’ll avoid mindless snacking”—you teach yourself that your own word doesn’t matter. The cost? Growing frustration, lost momentum, and declining belief in future goals.

The Cycle of Letdown—and Why It’s Common

Life throws curveballs. You say you won’t overeat this weekend, but stress leads you to raiding the fridge. You swear to a new morning workout, but the alarm rings and you “accidentally” snooze. Each missed intention chips away at your confidence and identity as someone who follows through.

How to Break the Cycle (and Rebuild Trust in Yourself)

1. Re-evaluate Your Promises
Make sure what you commit to is what you truly want, not just what you think you “should” want. Real desires energize action; fake goals quickly fade.

2. Get Radical About Self-Honesty
What’s really sabotaging you? Lack of time, unsupportive routines, or maybe perfectionism (“I missed once—may as well give up”)?

3. Start Small and Over-Deliver
Choose the lowest-hanging fruit: a five-minute stretch, one healthy meal, a daily walk. Keep streaks manageable.

Under-promise, over-deliver. Small wins breed big momentum.

4. Make Promises Public
Tell a friend, colleague, or coach. Accountability increases commitment—doubly so when your reputation is on the line.

5. Celebrate Each Kept Promise
Tiny rewards matter: cross the task off your list, share progress in a group, or simply savor the feeling.

6. Stack Wins and Build Self-Trust
One day becomes a week, a month, a new standard. Suddenly, you expect to follow through—and you do.

Real Client Results: “Leah’s Integrity Streak”

Leah struggled for years with weight loss and stretching routines—endless cycles of “start strong, fall off.” When she committed to just three daily promises—drink water, five minutes of breathwork, evening stretch—her identity shifted. “I’m someone who honors her word. I finally trust myself.”

The Psychology: Self-Integrity as Motivation

Research shows that keeping promises to yourself boosts dopamine, creates positive self-talk, and literally rewires brain circuits for confidence, motivation, and resilience. Conversely, breaking promises repeatedly heightens shame and self-doubt.

If You Slip (And You Will)

Relapses and off-days will happen: the key is to forgive yourself quickly, reboot, and keep going. The “never miss twice” rule is powerful. Miss a morning? Double down at night.

Coaching/Guidance Amplifies Results

If you’ve tried self-motivation but keep tripping up, a coach or group can help:

You’ll map realistic promises and the supports needed to keep them.
You’ll have a sounding board for setbacks.
Progress becomes collective, not just private struggle.

Personified: Treat Yourself as You Would a Friend

Would you let down a close friend or child, again and again? Of course not! Act as your own best friend—sincere, honest, and persistent. Your self-respect is worth the effort.

The Simple Formula for Lasting Change

Make it meaningful.
Make it doable.
Track and reward.
Repair after stumbles.
Iterate as you grow.

Ready for Support?

Not sure where to start? Want a “trust rebuild” and real routine? Book a [Free Consultation] at SolCore Fitness. Let’s clarify your goals, map out simple promises, and lay down a track record that pays off for years to come.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 30 2023

Positive Mindset Habits You Can Build

Introduction: Why Mindset Is the REAL Foundation

Ever notice two people can experience the same day and have opposite attitudes? “Ugh, Monday is a drag,” versus “Hey, new week, let’s see what happens.” The difference? It’s not the circumstances—it’s the mindset. Mindset is more than trendy “positive thinking.” It’s the foundation for how you interpret events, handle obstacles, and rebound from stress. At SolCore Fitness, we’ve found that everything—commitment, resilience, even physical health—starts with your story about what’s happening.

The Power of Perception

Perception is choice in action. Imagine you’re late for work and stuck in traffic. One mindset says: “My whole day is ruined.” Another reframes: “Great, I’ve got ten minutes of me-time.” Same event. Different perception leads to different stress, mood, and likelihood of eating breakfast or finishing a workout later.

The “Brain Reps” Theory

Just as you build strength set after set, you build mindset moment-by-moment, story-by-story. Every time you practice a more constructive thought—“Setbacks are feedback, not failure”—you lay down neural “tracks” that make it easier to choose helpful thoughts tomorrow.

Real-World Story: Sharon’s Shift

Sharon, a long-term SolCore member, was queen of negative self-talk. If a class felt tough, she’d say, “I’m so weak.” If the scale didn’t budge in a week, “It’s hopeless.” After coaching, Sharon built a new mental habit. She replaced every criticism with a countering truth: “It’s normal to struggle. I’m getting stronger every time.” Within two months, her stress levels dropped, she looked forward to tough days, and—bonus—her body changed faster because she stopped sabotaging herself emotionally.

Habit #1: Question Your First Story

Pause when you catch yourself making a snap judgment (e.g., “I failed at my workout”). Ask, “Is this absolutely true? What’s another story?” This unlocks new perspectives—“I showed up, pushed through, and learned what I need to focus on.”

Habit #2: Practice Daily Wins

At the end of each day, jot down three “wins”—big or small. Over time, this shifts your brain’s attention from what’s missing to what you’re building.

“I cooked a healthy dinner.”
“I took a walk.”
“I apologized instead of stewing.”

Habit #3: Choose Supportive Language

Transform “I have to work out” into “I get to move my body.” Instead of “It’s hard,” try “It’s challenging, which means I’m growing.” Language isn’t just communication—it builds reality.

Habit #4: Cultivate “Obstacle Immunity”

Resilient people expect setbacks. They develop a script: “This challenge is an opportunity to learn.” When plans get derailed—illness, work, unexpected travel—view it as training for real life, not a personal flaw.

Habit #5: Embed Mindset Shifts In Action

John struggled to maintain his routine when family stress peaked. We made a plan: for every negative thought (“I have no time”), anchor it to an action (“I’ll do a 5-minute stretch right now”). Action cements new mental patterns.

How Positive Mindset Fuels Physical Progress

The research is clear: optimistic people recover faster from injury, are less likely to develop chronic pain, and have better immune function. How? Lower cortisol, adaptive behavior, and a willingness to try again.

Caution: Positive Doesn’t Mean Fake

You don’t have to deny hard times. True “positive mindset” acknowledges pain, setbacks, and struggle—then seeks the lesson or opportunity, not just a happy face.

When Mindset Shifts Don’t Come Easy

If you’ve faced trauma, chronic pain, or have deeply engrained self-criticism, shifting mindset can be difficult. Support helps: journal, work with a coach, or join a group where positive stories are the norm.

Building the Habit—One Day at a Time

Start every morning with a question: “What’s one thing I’m grateful for?” or “What could go right today?”
Pair your workout with a positive affirmation: “Every rep is me building capability.”
After tough days, ask, “What would I tell a friend?” Then say it to yourself.

Client Example: Rick’s New Week Ritual

Every Sunday, Rick writes two lists: “Last week’s wins” and “What I’ll attempt this week.” This simple review keeps self-doubt in check and sets him up for consistency, even when motivation dips.

Final Step: Get Help Turning Mindset Into Consistency

It’s one thing to read about these ideas; it’s another to practice them. If you want support, clarity, and a plan for weaving these new habits into daily life, book a [Free Consultation]. At SolCore, we’ll help you build the mindset that lays the base for the body you want.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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May 09 2023

How Extreme Ownership Can Transform Your Life

In a world full of distractions and excuses, there’s a perfect lie: “My circumstances control my results.” But there’s a radical, life-changing alternative extreme ownership. This principle, popularized by Navy SEALs and embraced by world-class performers in every field, puts you 100% in charge: your actions, your outcomes, your future.

What Is Extreme Ownership?

Extreme ownership means taking absolute responsibility for everything in your sphere. It’s tough medicine—when you win, it’s because you led wisely; when you stumble, you look to self-correct first.

Did you miss a training session? No blame, just “What can I do to set myself up better tomorrow?”
Did an injury resurface? “What cues did I miss? What can I prep differently next time?”

Client Story: “Andy’s Accountability Block”

Andy was frustrated: “I keep getting hurt and can’t seem to build momentum.” At first, he blamed bad luck, “old injuries,” or even his schedule. The turning point came when he accepted: results good and bad were his to own. With help, Andy started tracking habits: sleep, meal prep, warm-ups, scheduling sessions. He noticed patterns late nights sabotaged progress; skipping warm-ups led to old knee pain. By owning the process, Andy reclaimed his health and shifted from passive victim to unstoppable advocate.

Seven Lessons of Extreme Ownership (Inspired by the SEALs)

Seize Accountability – Every outcome is a case study. Celebrate wins, and study setbacks—what can YOU change?
Clarity of Motivation – Know why you want results. Keep your “why” where you see it daily.
Build a Simple Plan – Don’t overcomplicate; focus on big levers (daily movement, meal prep, sleep).
Remove “Blamethink” – Excuses feel easy, but stall growth. Trade them for honest appraisal, then action.
Act on Priorities – Decide what matters—progress here drowns out what’s less important.
Seek Collaboration – Ownership isn’t isolation. Ask for help, coaching, or guidance—but always act.
Small Acts, Big Results – String a hundred small wins into momentum; never wait for a “heroic” save.

Moving From Victimhood to Victory

When you own your routines, you see obstacles as surmountable—or at least as learning steps. Excuses melt away in the light of focused attention.

Miss a workout? Find a slot tomorrow. Didn’t meal prep? Assess, adjust, and try again.
Progress stalls? Communicate with your coach, review your routines, and fine-tune.

Extreme Ownership in Fitness

How you train is how you live. Clients who thrive:

Log every session—wins and misses.
Adjust meals as soon as energy lags or recovery drops.
Stand up for their priorities—even when family and work tug from all sides.
Ask for feedback, embrace correction, and act on advice.

Personal Training and Manual Therapy as the Ultimate Support

Our personal training and manual therapy programs aren’t there to “fix” you, but to teach you ownership. We partner:

With each assessment, you take the lead on daily rituals and routines.
You’re coached in proactive recovery, not passive treatment.
Accountability means a friendly check-in and a nudge, not a rescue.

Ownership = Freedom

Here’s the paradox: taking responsibility, even for mistakes, is liberating. You quickly learn that you’re more capable, creative, and resilient than you thought.

Client Example: “Lisa’s Leadership Leap”
Lisa always waited for cues—“what do I do next?” Once she took control, she scheduled sessions, planned meals, and tracked her own progress. Her results accelerated, and—crucially—she felt JOY in the process.

Common Pitfalls (and How to Fix Them)

Slipping back into “blame mode”? Pause and reflect: “What did I influence here?”
Waiting too long to address an injury or challenge? Reach out, get feedback, and immediately act on it.

Building a New Identity

The biggest change? You become the kind of person who sets goals and achieves them, because every step is under your influence.

Ready for Extreme Ownership?

Stop waiting for “when the time is right.” Reclaim your results and future. Want a partner in ownership? Explore our personal training and manual therapy options and discover what true transformation feels like when you lead the way.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Apr 22 2023

You Gotta Make Space In Your Life For Your Goals

TImagine: What If Your Life Is Already “Full”?

Ever feel like your days are jam-packed—but you’re still not moving toward what you want? If you’ve ever set a passionate goal (get pain-free, run a 10K, reclaim your spine, eat better, enjoy mornings again!) but find yourself spinning, you’re not alone.

Here’s the truth:
Most people aren’t failing at goals because of willpower or talent. They’re failing because there’s literally no space for those goals to exist. Your calendar, energy, to-do list, even your mental bandwidth—all filled up with the urgent, the routine, the “shoulds” and the patterns you’ve been living on autopilot.

Why Making Space is the First (and Often Forgotten) Step

You can’t add a new habit, routine, or ambition on top of an already-full plate—at least, not for long. Trying to “layer on” healthy change without clearing space is like shoving a new couch into a packed room: something’s got to give, or you’ll end up tripping over your own life.

Analogy:
You wouldn’t try to grow a garden in a backyard covered with junk. First, clear the plot. Only then can you plant, feed, and watch anything meaningful grow.

Story: Tom’s “Schedule Overhaul” Breakthrough

Tom, a SolCore client in his fifties, wanted to train consistently and finally recover from years of back pain and fatigue. For months, he kept saying “I just don’t have time.” When we dove deeper, his calendar was stacked with work, errands, and tasks that started as “important” but had never been reconsidered.

We mapped his week and found:

6+ hours spent scrolling social media (often to de-stress)
Three late-evening TV hours most nights for “wind-down” (but led to poor sleep)
Tasks that could be delegated or batched, but were still done out of habit

Once Tom deleted or rescheduled just a few of those blocks, he made space for three 30-minute movement sessions per week, meal prepping, and even dedicated time for reflection. With space came oxygen for his goals—and within three months, he moved better, slept better, and felt proud.

The Hidden Ways We Fill Our Lives

Commitments we never revisit: Clubs, favors, meetings that are now “automatic”
Energy zappers: Drama, unending social feeds, multitasking, saying “yes” to requests just to be polite
Mental clutter: Worrying, ruminating, replaying frustrations

How to Make Space—Step by Step

1. Audit Your Space (Time, Energy, Headspace)
Block out a quiet 30 minutes. List every recurring obligation—big and small. Be honest: what energizes, what drains? What really supports your next goal? What can be delegated, dropped, or rescheduled?

2. Apply the “Full Jar” Principle
If your day is a jar, filling it with sand (endless tiny tasks, distractions) leaves no room for rocks (your goals). But if you start with rocks, then pour in sand, everything fits.

Schedule main workouts, food prep, self-care first.
Let smaller tasks fill gaps.

3. Create Transitions
If you can’t do a full “reboot,” try sandwiching new habits onto existing routines. Example: If you always walk the dog, end with five minutes of stretching. Or pair meditation with your first cup of coffee.

4. Say “No” Boldly, “Yes” Intentionally
No to the things that don’t move you forward (even fun invites if they will sabotage your needs). Yes to routines, people, and spaces that uplift and support you.

5. Make It Visual
Use calendars, trackers, or even sticky notes to see your space for goals. If possible, physically clear out (kitchen counter for prepping, corner for stretching/yoga).

The Science of “Room to Grow”

Research in behavioral psychology shows that habit change fails most when there’s a “crowding out” effect—meaning, too many existing obligations prevent new routines from ever gaining traction. Success skyrockets when we subtract and simplify before adding.

The Emotional Side—Permission to Clear

Many clients struggle with guilt: “If I let go of this, I’m failing.” Not true. Releasing old commitments (even ones you once loved) is an act of self-respect, not neglect. Your friends, family, and work can thrive better when you’re thriving too.

When You Don’t Make Space—What Happens?

New routines are inconsistent, rarely stick, and become a source of shame (“Why can’t I follow through?”)
Self-care feels like “stealing time,” not a gift
The cycle of overwhelm, burnout, and self-criticism repeats

Client Story: Maya’s “Declutter, Restore, Thrive”

Maya was a busy mom and local business leader. After a minor injury, she wanted to add physical therapy and stress relief—but always felt “jammed.” A nonjudgmental audit revealed she was still attending three committees she no longer cared about—“just because.” With guidance, she stepped down (with gratitude, not guilt), and found two extra afternoons per week for group class and reading. “I finally feel in control,” she said. “My body and mood transformed—and my family noticed, too.”

Toolbox: Your Space-Making Playbook

Weekly review: What kept you busy last week? What actually helped?
Start with “WHY”—What is the single most important goal for this season? Carve out room for it first.
Remember you can’t do everything at once. Pick one or two priorities.
Involve others. Tell them you’re clearing space for a goal—most will support (or join you!).

Ready to Plant New Seeds?

Until you clear the soil, nothing new will bloom. The first move is always subtraction, not addition!

If you want a proven structure for holistic change—one that fits your new, well-made space—start with The Ultimate Guide For A Holistic Exercises And Fitness Program. You’ll get a blueprint to declutter and re-focus, so your goals actually thrive.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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Jan 12 2023

Why Confusion Kills Your Health & Fitness Progress (And How to Break Through)

Confusion is one of the biggest roadblocks to achieving your health and fitness goals. It creates paralysis, steals motivation, and keeps even the most determined people stuck in the same frustrating place.

But where does confusion actually come from? Why does it hit so many, no matter how much desire or discipline they start with? And most importantly how can you clear the fog and get traction?

Let’s break it down.

The Three Main Sources of Confusion

Not Understanding Your Body’s Needs

Everyone’s anatomy, injury history, lifestyle, and goals are unique. Without clarity about what your body requires, you waste time copying cookie-cutter programs or mismatched routines.

Chasing Results From Other People’s Blueprints

Maybe your friend lost weight with intermittent fasting, or a “fit-fluencer” swears by their 45-minute HIIT routines. But what works for them—and their body type, schedule, and health status—won’t necessarily work for you. Cloning someone else’s plan rarely leads to lasting progress.

The Research Rabbit Hole

Information is everywhere! But endless Googling, watching YouTube, or scrolling forums muddies the water. Ironically, the more options you consider, the more overwhelmed (and less decisive) you become. This is especially true if you’re “researching” out of fear of making a wrong move.

Too Much Info… Not Enough Action

Don’t get me wrong—education is powerful. But if you find yourself gathering information without ever applying it, or desperately cobbling plans together from different sources but never acting, recognize this:

Perpetual learning without action is avoidance, fueled by fear—conscious or unconscious.

Fear of not choosing perfectly. Fear of failing. Fear of discomfort. But none of this leads to results.

The Big Question: What Are You Actually Afraid Of?

If you catch yourself bogged down in confusion, ask: What am I really afraid of? Sometimes the answer is straightforward: embarrassment, pain, wasting time. Other times, it’s deeper: not being “enough,” being judged, or feeling out of control.

The point is, if you use “I just need to learn a little more” as your reason for staying stuck, you’ll never act. And until you do, nothing changes.

Are You Trying to Become a Practitioner… Or Just Get Results?

If your goal is not to be a professional trainer or therapist, stop pressuring yourself to acquire a PhD in exercise science. Trust the guidance of qualified people who’ve “been there, done that.” If you ignore decades of experience and insist on being the expert, you’re not being cautious—you’re being self-defeating.

Learn by Doing

Progress comes when you:

Take action—even a small step—so you can see and feel what works for you.
Observe and reflect—How does your body respond? What do you enjoy? Where do you struggle?
Adjust as you go—Be open to pivots, but don’t scatter your effort. Stick with a plan long enough to create data (and adaptation).
Put ego aside—Admit when a method isn’t delivering, seek feedback, and accept a beginner’s mindset.

Follow this checkpoint process:

Act
Reflect
Adjust
Repeat—with a focus on your own vision, not someone else’s “success story.”

The Fog Will Lift—If You Move

As you start moving forward, confusion dissipates. Your general desire to get “fit” or “strong” becomes more nuanced maybe it’s about improving mobility, building energy for grandkids, or overcoming stiffness from old injuries. You’ll stop spinning your wheels and start building momentum.

Need help with lifting that fog? Book a complimentary consultation where we’ll clarify:

Where you are and where you want to go
The most effective actions for your goals
What’s holding you back (and how to move past it)
Action steps to bridge the gap between confusion and confidence

Your goals are just waiting for you to clear the mental clutter and step forward.

If you’re ready to end the confusion and put knowledge into meaningful motion, the [HOLISTIC EXERCISE AND FITNESS PROGRAM] is designed to guide you from overwhelm to outcomes. Let’s connect and make your next step the most effective one yet.

It’s not just working out, it’s building a foundation for a better life.

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